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Oh, how things change…

Wednesday, February 13th, 2013

I have spent quite a bit of time going over this blog. I have read my oldest posts, some of my more popular posts,  and perhaps my favorite posts, the ones about my kids. I have giggled at some, cried at others and in all honesty, rolled my eyes a few times too. I have struggled over whether or not to continue writing here as I am not sure I represent the same woman who started this blog five or so years ago.

I have been on many a spiritual journey. I have been swayed by others, influenced by some, and fought to have my own identity. I have parented well, parented poorly, and ultimatley claimed my role as “mother” in a way I never saw coming. I have complained, I have sung praise, and I have learned that ultimately, contentment in all situations is the goal.

I have grown.

I am proud of that. It has been more of a struggle than I will ever put into words. I wouldn’t change a thing.

I remain “The Hopeful Housewife”.  What that means to me may be completely different than it was years ago, but the title still fits.  I still cling to my faith, just not with rules and societal expectations that once restrained me. I still value my role as mother, wife, and homemaker..but it no longer defines me. I am, and forever will be, frugal, but my approach to simple living means something entirely different these days.   I still sing the praises of Homeschooling, but feel much more free flying my “Unschooler” flag without fear of criticism.

Long story short? I feel free. Beautifully, remarkably free.

God made me who I am. A unique, one of a kind type of woman. A mother…and a darn good one.  A loving, FUN wife.  A devoted friend (who has learned what the definition of boundaries is and doesnt put up with the nonsense she used to!) A free spirited, music loving, book obsessed, wannabe writer who may have made the best or worst decision to document her feelings and experiences at a little place called The Hopeful Housewife. 

Oh, how things change. And I am glad they do.

Haven’t Forgotten…

Thursday, June 14th, 2012

Contest winner will be announced today. Sorry I am a day late. We lost one of our precious pugs on Monday and my week has been moving in slow motion.

I will get the winner up and contacted today in just a bit!!!!

HH

Excellent Furniture Polish for Pennies!

Tuesday, June 5th, 2012

I am trying really hard to end my cleaning product addiction. It is NOT easy for me. I tend to equate cleanliness with the smell of lemon and jet fuel (aka, spray can wood polishers) so I am trying to rewire my thinking.

My neighbor, “S” came by today to discuss our latest kefir issues (yeah, we really meet up to discuss fermented milk) and while we were chatting I decided I would polish my kitchen cabinetry.

 I juiced a lime, which I had on hand because wonder-hubby did all the shopping after a ten hour work day yesterday,

 

 measured it (about 1/4 of a cup) and then mixed in an equal amount of olive oil. I put it all in an empty agave nectar bottle that has a spout top-

 

 gave it a shake, and applied a bit to an old sock on my hand.

Wipe, buff, admire.

“S” liked the results too, and considering her husband is a cabinet maker, I feel good about her observation. :)

I should have taken a before picture, but I didn’t, so I decided to show you an before and after on the buffet:

BEFORE:

AFTER:

Cheap, Easy, and Effective. Oh, and Cabinet maker’s wife approved. :)

Blue Monday: 6/4/12

Monday, June 4th, 2012

 

I haven’t done a Blue Monday in years. As I sat here this morning, I thought today might be the day to do one again. I opened up my picture folder to see what I already had pictures of, hoping for inspiration. I took so many pictures in the last five days…and none were blue. I thought of taking a pic of Gavin’s new shoes. They are blue. They are also those “monkey feet” shoes with toes. I love them. Instead, I chose to look through more pictures. I came across an entire folder of drawings the kids have made in MS Paint on the computer. Interestingly enough, almost all of them have blue in them. I can tell by the designs and little details who made them and some of the titles are pretty adorable. Thought I would share.

As far as I can tell, Gavin only made one. It wasn’t hard to spot.

His first initial, in NY Giants colors. Dead giveaway. He also appropriately titled it, “Gavin”. Deep.

Trinity is the easiest to spot. You see, Trinity lives in a world where puffy hearts and glitter fall from the sky every time she speaks. It is rather incredible, really. I wish I could see the world through her eyes for one day. Just one day. I dread the day she figures out that unicorns aren’t real and the world is a tough place to live.

Here is the first one that caught my eye:

There is no guess work on this one. It was made on 3-29-12, she was 10 years old, and it is titled “only 1flower”. Simple enough.

Not blue, but had to include it.

It is called “loveballon” (said the homeschooled child.)

The rest of her art is pretty much an homage to me. Check it out.

(M is for mom by the way)

Hey, that one has some blue! I imagine this to be what Trinity’s words would look like in color. I mean that in a very loving way, I swear. She called this one “Trinity”. I think I am on to something here. The girl just has a joyful heart.

Titled Ilooovuuuuuuuuuuuuuu111

This one is “Mama2″. Maybe Mama1 didnt make the cut.

The last Trinity one is called Ilovemom. Its my favorite.

My favorite thing about it is that she never showed it to me. This means that she just wanted to create something saying she loved her mom…well on 3-29-12, anyway.It wasnt for bonus points, it wasnt to prove anything…it was because she loves me. Kinda sweet. :)

Back to blue.

Let’s move on to Piper, shall we? She is a very mature child for her age, and a bit of an over-thinker, like her Mama.

titled, “Dad”.

Titled, “Mom”. She is ever the fair one.

“Dad2″

“Dad3″

Starting to feel a little less fair… ;)

(Can you see they have begun to take sides?)

I love this one:

It is called “I will live forever”. She is 8. Yeah.

Fair as always, she also has these two:

(See? Piper agrees with me. :) )

and this one:

titled “happybdaygavin”

Perhaps most appropriate, is this one:

Titled: “BLUE” (click to link back to blue monday)

Happy Monday. :)

I was reading old blog posts…

Tuesday, May 29th, 2012

and I found an example of “someday I will laugh at this!”

whoever told me that was right.

SO.FUNNY.

http://hopefulhousewife.com/?p=79#comments

What’s Cookin’ Good Lookin’ 5/26/12…OR…

Saturday, May 26th, 2012

You could call it “My husband is begging for a cheat day, 5/26/12″.

He woke me up to tell me he REALLY wanted to go to town to get some bark to fill our front flower beds. Then he confessed that he also really wanted to get some bologna, white bread, cheese singles and bbq chips. He tried to pump me up about this idea, but failed. I told him I understood cravings and that he should go for it. I, myself, cannot even imagine eating bologna at this stage in the game. Not because I don’t think of it occassionally, but because I know I will feel sick after I eat it. Funny how the body adjusts to what you are eating. It seems to adjust either way. We ate crap food for years and never had an issue. Now I don’t, and I swear I can hardly touch anything cheat worthy anymore. I have to REALLY want something to make it worth the bellyache.

So we will head to town today. Get some bark for our flowerbeds (that area currently full of weeds, ugh!), get some processed cheese food, bologna, bbq chips, white bread and some free time too, as his mama is gonna visit with the kiddos for a bit. I think Our middle child is gonna stay with us. MIL is talking movie with the kids, but our oldest daughter finds the giant screen pretty overwhelming. I don’t get my kids to myself very often, so it will be nice to be alone with our sweet girl. I will likely have a jamba juice for lunch. I don’t like the idea of soy in my food (and so much of their stuff has it) but I will try to navigate their menu a bit.

We finished up breakfast a bit ago, and I am already seeing a pattern.

Kids and I had homemade oatmeal, made with a bit of milk, topped with cinnamon, butter, honey, and a drizzle of maple syrup. I ate mine with a side of fresh strawberries that the hubs brought home from a road-side stand. He brought a HUGE flat. Like 20 little green baskets huge. He paid 15 bucks. Sounds like a lot, but trust me, they are WORTH IT. Best.berries.ever.  I haven’t yet sold the kids on strawberries, but for now will enjoy the fact that I don’t have to share.

Photobucket (The milk is fine, folks…its just cream top)

The hubs had leftover pulled pork. On white hot dog buns. With habanero cheddar. And hot sauce. He misses white bread I am sure. Sometimes I don’t blame him.

Lunch for the kids will be taken care of by the MIL. I am sure the kids will make a cute face and get something kids love. I really don’t mind. Food rules are off when the kids are with friends or grandparents. We are not purists.

I will likely stick with Jamba. The hubs just might make a cheater sandwich in the Wal*Mart parking lot.

Dinner will have us back on track. Grass fed organic ground beef, seasoned and made into patties that will be served up with roasted veggies (potatoes, carrots and asparagus) and corn on the cob.

Sounds expensive. It really isn’t. Ground beef at the typical market right now is almost 4.00 a pound. The meat I bought was 5.25 a pound. I don’t see that 1.25 extra as much of an increase. Especially when you consider all the other foods we no longer buy. One pound will feed our family a few small patties each (no one really wants more than that), and with all the yummy veggies, it will be plenty. I season the meat with worchtechire (sp!?!?), salt, pepper, garlic, and a bit of half and half to keep it moist. Make into patties, pan fry in a bit of olive oil and butter (so the olive oil doesnt burn) and you are done. The veggies consist of red potatoes (1.69 for a five pound bag this week!), asparagus (1.50 a bundle) and some carrots which were .99 cents for ORGANIC this week too. Corn was 8 for a dollar at Winco here, so we are gonna feast on that too. If you count the butter we will be using, dinner is still less than $10.00.

Dessert will involve strawberries. It kinda has to.

I don’t mind a cheater day. I think we need them sometimes to remind us why we stopped eating that stuff.

Plus, sometimes you can’t beat a bologna sandwich.

Happy Cheater Day.

Eatin’ on the cheap: A complete menu

Monday, January 18th, 2010

My menu for the next two weeks is as follows:

Breakfasts: (7 different ones, x2)

All breakfasts will be served with yogurt and fruit smoothies.

Buttermilk pancakes (nourishing traditions style)

French toast

Bagels w/ strawberry cream cheese (both homemade)

malt-o-meal (or other farina type cereal) w/honey, brown sugar, cinnamon, and a dash of maple syrup!

Sourdough waffles

homemade granola bars

scrambled eggs and toast

Lunches: (again, 7 of them x2)

All lunches will be served with banana, apple and/or oranges. :)

Chicken salad sandwiches w/homemade mayo

homemade mac n cheese

bean burritos

homemade pizza

chicken tacos/tostadas

soup and sandwiches (I’ll take requests on the sandwiches, and the soup will probably be potato)

chicken fiesta salad with chips (minus the jalapeno)

Dinner:

Deviled eggs made w/fresh mayo and crackers. Organic green salad w/homemade balsamic dressing-tonights dinner.

Chile Rellenos (this was actually last night) with brown rice. A friend came over w/the ingredients and taught me how to make them, so technically, this was free for us!

Other meals on our menu this week:

Turkey patties, bread, salad, brown rice

Sandwiches: Grilled cheese and chicken, served with cold couscous salad

Pasta w/pesto sauce, salad

refried beans, rice, homemade tortillas, and avocado slices

beans and scrambled eggs with homemade corn tortillas, fresh salsa

Hummus, whole wheat sesame crackers, balsamic salad, couscous (we’ll probably do this one 2 or 3 times)

Turkey dinner! I have a turkey in the freezer that I should thaw and cook. I’ll serve it with typical holiday fixin’s. This will likely be a Sunday meal.

Turkey salad sandwiches w/basil mayo and chocolate smoothies made with agave nectar. Mmmm…

Cornish game hens from the deep freeze with yogurt sauce, salad, and flat bread (homemade)

Ground turkey albondigas w/tortillas and beans

This will feed us for roughly two weeks (figuring we’ll have leftovers a couple times), and including breakfasts and lunches (which are very similar to last week’s), I spent just over 75.00 for groceries for the entire two week menu. I had most of the meat in the freezer, and really wanted to use up what we had hangin’ around the pantry and in the fridge.

I’m gonna try to get some pics of the meals up this week..

Can I just say…

Monday, December 21st, 2009

my husband is amazing. take a look at the comment he left me on my anniversary post. wish I hadn’t put on mascara today :P

Day Two

Friday, December 18th, 2009

Women in Ministry

Tuesday, December 15th, 2009

I wanted to answer to a thread going at Candy’s site…and I assure you, this is not intended to spark debate or conflict. I just couldnt post the whole thing in the comment box. :)

The church I attend on the occasional Friday has a female pastor. She has amazing faith, and her spiritual gifts are apparent and incredible. There is no doubt in my mind that she is called by GOD to do what she does. I just simply cannot agree that women are not biblically “allowed” in the ministry after attending this church.

This article was taken off of the church website, www.abbasheart.com  I encourage you to read Sandi’s testimony, and if you have a bit, read Donny’s testimony too. Donny is her son, and is a walking miracle.

Soo, here ya go:

Again, this is not intended to be an argument with or against Candy. :) Simply my answer to the blog post. :)

Women in Ministry

By Mac Hammond and Dr. Junius Pressey

In much of the world, the role of women in ministry is very controversial.  I think it’s probably the most abused and misunderstood and most fought-about topic in the Bible.

There are many ministries that believe women should not teach or preach in any capacity.

Then there are some that let women teach if they teach other women.  Different churches have different views on how much or how little they allow women to minister.

Teaching that women cannot teach is an erroneous doctrine and, for the sake of the body of Christ, needs to be corrected.  Women make up 60 percent of the Church.  If, indeed, it is inappropriate for that great percentage of the body of Christ to not teach or preach the Word of God, then we need to rethink our strategy for taking our communities for Christ.

The source of this erroneous doctrine is two portions of scripture. Let’s look at them.

1 Corinthians 14:34-35 “Let the women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak, but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law.  And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home; for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.”

1Timothy 2:11-15 “Let the women learn in silence with all subjection.  But I suffer not a woman to teach nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.  For Adam was not deceived, but the woman deceived was in the transgression.  Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in the faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.”

After reading these two passages of scripture, it’s easy to understand how one would come to the conclusion that women should not teach the Word of God.  However, the Bible tells us that we must rightly divide the Word of truth.  If the Bible can be rightly divided, then it can be wrongly divided.

Old Testament Women in Ministry

There are many places in the Bible where women not only minister but they hold five-fold offices.  I’ll list a few of the more prominent.

First of all, we see in Exodus 15:20, Miriam the Prophetess.  Miriam was sister to both Moses and Aaron.  She was used of God as a prophetess. A prophet is one who proclaims the word of the Lord.  A prophet teaches and speaks under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit.

In the fourth and fifth chapters of Judges, we read about Deborah who also was a prophetess.  It says about Deborah in Judges 4:4 that she “…judged Israel at that time.”  She was not simply a prophetess, but she also judged Israel.  God used a woman to direct the destiny of the nation of Israel  as both judge and prophetess.

Also in 2 Kings 22:14-20, we read about Hulda.  Hulda was a prophetess that was sought out by other prophets and kings for the direction and counsel of God.

We can’t forget about Esther.  God used Esther to bring deliverance and salvation to the entire Jewish nation from the evil intentions of a wicked man.

New Testament Women in Ministry

There are women standing in various ministry offices in the New Testament as well.

Anna, a widow, 84 years of age, was a prophetess also.  The Bible said she served God with fasting and prayer at the temple day and night.  When Joseph and Mary brought Jesus to the temple to present him to the Lord, Anna began to speak prophetically of Jesus “to all who were looking for the redemption (deliverance) of Israel.”  (Luke 2:36-38)

Also, God used a woman to preach Jesus to the Gentiles.  While Jesus was sitting at a well, a Samaritan woman approached the well.  Jesus began to talk to her and revealed to her that He was Messiah.  She ran back to the city and told everyone, “Come see a man, which told me all things that I ever did:  is this not the Christ?”  The Bible says they all left the city and went out to talk to Jesus.  (John 4:6-30)

The first people to know about the resurrection of Christ and to spread the news of it were two women.  The Bible says, “…came Mary Magdalene and the other Mary to see the sepulcher.”  An angel appeared to them and announced that Jesus was no longer in the tomb but that He had risen.  The angel told them to “go quickly and tell His disciples that He is risen from the dead…”

We see in the book of Acts a married couple, Aquila and Priscilla, pastored a church together in Athens.  The Word makes is plain that Priscilla pastored with her husband.

In Acts 18, they ministered to a man named Apollos.  The Bible describes him as an eloquent man, mighty in the scriptures.  He was “fervent in spirit and spoke diligently the things of the Lord knowing only the baptism of John.” 

It says in verse 18:26 about Apollos, “And he began to speak boldly in the synagogue; whom when Aquila and Priscilla had heard, they took him unto them, and expounded unto him the way of God more perfectly.”

It says both Aquila and Priscilla taught Apollos.  Now I want you to notice that it doesn’t say anything about Priscilla “usurping” the man’s authority.

So far, we’ve seen women standing in the office as prophet and teacher.  Now let’s look at one who stands in the office of apostle.  Romans 16:7 says, “Salute Andronicus and Junia (a woman), my kinsmen, and my fellow prisoners, who are of note among the apostles, who also were in Christ before me.”

There is another very important scripture that is in reference to women in ministry in Acts 2:17-18, “And it shall come to pass in the last days, saith God, I will pour out my Spirit upon all flesh; and your sons and your daughters shall prophesy, and your young men shall see visions, and your old men shall dream dreams:  And on my servants and on my handmaidens I will pour out in those days my Spirit; and they shall prophesy.”

This is a prophesy by the Old Testament prophet Joel about the last days.  Very clearly, women are to be used by God to minister.  God will pour out His Spirit upon them and they shall prophesy.

After having read all these scriptures, how could anyone doubt the fact that God does use and call women into ministry?  Galatians 3:26-27 tells us, “For as many of you as have been baptized into Christ have put on Christ.  There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for ye are all one in Christ Jesus.”

Does God call an “earthen vessel,” which is what our bodies are, or does he call a spirit into the ministry?  He calls a spirit into the ministry, not a body, or earthen vessel.  God calls the spirits of both male and female.  We are all “one in Christ.”

Now then, after reviewing all these scriptures, there is no doubt that women are called into the ministry.  It’s plain and simple to see.  We must then come to the conclusion that the two scriptures we quoted at the beginning of the teaching must have a different meaning.

Rightly Dividing the Word of Truth

Let’s look at these scriptures more closely:

1 Corinthians 14:34-35 “Let the women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak, but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law.  And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home; for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.”

There is no word in the Greek language for wife.  The Greek word, gune, translated here as “women” is the same Greek word that is translated as “wives” in many other places in the New Testament.

We can ascertain that this is a reference to wives because it says “let them ask their husbands.”  So we know it’s referring to married women, not all women.

In order to rightly divide this scripture, you must take into consideration the culture of that time.  Women did not have the rights and privileges that men had.  They were truly second-class citizens.

In public, men and women didn’t sit together.  Wives sat on one side of the synagogue and the husbands sat on the other side.  The women received no education except through their husbands.  During their meetings in the synagogues, the women would shout across to their husbands questions about the message, if they didn’t understand what was being said.  As you can imagine, it created an atmosphere of confusion.

Paul was addressing a matter of church order, not church doctrine.  He said if the women were to learn anything, they were to ask their husbands these questions at home.  That’s why Paul said it was a shame for women to speak in the church.  They were disrupting the order of the service.

Clearly, Paul is not talking about women not teaching, because just a few chapters before, in 1 Corinthians 11:5, he is talking about women praying or prophesying in the church. Why would Paul contradict himself later saying women can’t teach?  It doesn’t make sense.

Let’s take a look at the scripture in 1 Timothy 2:11-15:  “Let the women learn in silence with all subjection.  But I suffer not a woman to teach nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.  For Adam was not deceived, but the woman deceived was in the transgression.  Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in the faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.”

This is also a reference to husbands and wives - not all women in general.  We know that because it’s making reference to the first husband and wife, Adam and Eve, and also because of the comment about childbearing.  It’s a reference to wives being in submission to their husbands.  She is told not to usurp authority over her husband.  The word “usurp” means:  “to act of oneself; to dominate.”  A woman must not teach or dominate her husband.

Conclusion:

As you can see, women are very much called of God to minister and teach the Word of God.  After viewing all the scriptures of women in the various offices of ministry, it would be impossible hold onto such an erroneous position which forbids women to teach.

Thank God!  It is when all believers, men and women, work together to fulfill the Great Commission that this world will be won for Christ.

Women!  You are free to answer the call of God to teach and minister the Word of God in whatever capacity He has called you.

This article was taken from the October 2005 issue of the News of Victory newsletter from Victory New Testament Fellowship, International in Mesquite, Texas.  Junius Pressey, PhD is one of their Fellowship Ministers.